Someone forwarded me this:
There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he didn'tknow which one he loved more. Someone taught him. Ask yourself thisquestion and answer it honestly : "When you are happy, which gal would you want to share your happinesswith?" The one you think of is someone you love. Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly: "When you are sad, which gal you want to share your burden with?" The one you think of is also someone you love.If you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that's the mostperfect. But if you don't think of the same gal, I would advise you tochose the one you are willing to share your sadness with. In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people whom you canshare your happiness with, not necessary your lover.If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. In sadness,however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you. But it shouldn't stop there.If that person only thinks of you when she is happy, but looks forsomeone else when she is sad, this lover is too unstable, she doesn'ttreat you as someone she can spend the rest of her life, with. Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her happiness. But, if she is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her side & ease her pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very importantposition in her heart.If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?